- You will need: pen and paper
- Estimated time: 20 minutes
Choose after each description between 1 to 5 to mark how comfortable you would feel with this person. 1 is „very comfortable”, 5 is „very uncomfortable”.
- Male user []
- Female user []
- 17-year-old male user []
- 17-year-old female user []
- 80-year-old male user []
- 80-year-old female user []
- User in very poor health []
- User who is an active heroin addict []
- User who is a former prisoner []
- User, former prisoner who has been in prison for murder []
- User who thinks they have gender identity issues []
- Transitioning user []
- A married man who is confused about his sexuality []
- A married woman who is confused about her sexuality []
- User who is completely silent []
- User who uses prostitutes regularly []
- User that is a prostitute []
- Homeless user []
- User, former prisoner who has been in prison for child abuse []
- A user who is sexually provocative and flirts []
- A male user who is extremely feminine []
- Female user who is extremely masculine []
- A man who regularly has unsafe, casual sex []
- A man who regularly has unsafe, casual sex and has sexually transmitted []
- A man who regularly has unsafe, casual sex and is HIV-positive []
- A woman who regularly has unsafe, casual sex []
- A woman who regularly has unsafe, casual sex and has sexually transmitted infections []
- A woman who regularly has unsafe, casual sex and is HIV-positive []
- A user who is severely negative and depressed []
- 14-year-old user []
- 10-year-old user []
- A male user who is gay and married to a woman []
- A female user who is gay and married to a man []
- Male user who is gay, HIV-positive and married to a woman []
- A female user who is gay, HIV-positive and married to a man []
- Bisexual man []
- Bisexual woman []
- A user who is concerned about HIV and AIDS []
- A bisexual man who is HIV-positive []
- A bisexual woman who is HIV-positive []
- Someone who regularly calls / writes and insists on talking to you exactly []
Reflect on the extreme marks you put:
- Why do you feel so uncomfortable or so comfortable?
- Where are your boundaries?
- Have you thought that such users would make you feel that way?
- Where is the root for this feeling?
We should know our boundaries and acknowledge them in order to be as helpful as possible.